Well, don't hold yourself back on my behalf I suppose. Unless it's some sort of cake buffet, in which case I'd like a brief vigil for my intentions to get you to eat proper food before you dig in.

[Screened]

What would an actual date imply then, with the apparent condition nothing about it is allowed to be preplanned?

I'm not sure whether that was a heads up or a warning on what family madness I am getting myself involved with...